Yes, it’s a big deal.
A few hours into the news cycle of Jason Collins’announcement that he is gay, perhaps the most perplexing comments of all seemed to be that this is not news.
I know, I know, reading online comments only brings horror
and exasperation, but I was more or less just curious what direction they were
taking in the sports world. And I was more or less surprised not to be
appalled.
Of course there’s the snark that comes when a journeyman
player most have never heard of comes out. Things like “Jason Collins is a gay
NBA player? I didn’t know he was still in the NBA.” The jokes seem to be mostly
about who Jason Collins is (or isn’t) as a ballplayer than anything else that I’ve
seen.
And that’s a good thing.
There are also the comments about this not being so
Earth-shattering if it had been a superstar, but Jason Collins himself summed
it up by saying someone had to be first and it might as well be him. Of course it would have been an even bigger
deal if it were Kobe Bryant or Kevin Durant, or a superstar in the NFL or Major
League Baseball.
And that’s true, but it doesn’t take away the impact of it
all.
It’s those who wonder why this is a story at all that make
me scratch my head the most. The online commenters have been joined by sports talk radio hosts on that non-topic topic as well. It might not be a big story to you, but guess
what? This isn’t about you.
To say this isn’t a big deal, that his sexuality being known is not important, is to assume that Jason Collins
is going to be warmly accepted with open arms by every person who hears the
news. The same way gay kids are so warmly accepted by everyone they
encounter in childhood and beyond. The way some gay employees don’t want to
come out at work because they don’t know how they will be received. The way
many gay people don’t want to come out to their own families for fear of being
disowned or condemned as a sinner.
To say Jason Collins’ announcement isn’t news is a slap in
the face to everyone who has been on the receiving end of pain and prejudice
throughout their lives. To simply say it’s the media latching on to a good
story sells the media short, too. In its most noble form, what the media has always
been is a way for people to tell their story. Every newspaper in America fields
calls every day from people who feel they have been wronged and want the paper
to help. Jason Collins had a story to tell, and found a respectable outlet in
Sports Illustrated to convey it where it would have the most impact.
Jason Collins can be told his inside game sucks, or that he
never really amounted to much in the NBA.
Just don’t tell him or anyone else that what he
did by coming out is insignificant. One day it might be insignificant when a U.S. male pro athlete comes out as being gay. And if that day ever occurs, he'll be able to give a big thanks to Jason Collins.